Another perk? No pressure to keep the conversation flowing the whole time. With four people, there’s always something going on, and you don’t have to carry the whole evening yourself. So if you’re looking for a way to mix things up, here are some double date ideas that won’t feel forced or boring.
Bring out your competitive side with a game night
A little competition never hurt anyone (okay, maybe some bruised egos). Board games, video games, card games—whatever works for your group. Pick a strategy game if you like to think, something fast and chaotic if you want a laugh, or a ridiculous party game like charades. Just be prepared for at least one person to take it way too seriously.
Turn dinner into a fun cook-off
Instead of sitting at a restaurant, why not turn dinner into an event? Choose a theme—homemade pizza, fancy pasta, burger night—and see who makes the best dish. Even if things go completely sideways and the food is terrible, you’ll at least have a good laugh. Worst-case scenario, you order takeout.
See how well you work together in an escape room
Being locked in a room together with a ticking clock and a bunch of puzzles? Sounds like either a great bonding experience or a test of patience. Either way, an escape room makes for a fun challenge and lets you see how well you work as a team. Just don’t be that couple who argues over every single clue.
Skip the crowded theater and set up an outdoor movie night
Why deal with overpriced tickets and sticky theater floors when you can set up your own movie night? Grab a projector, bring a bunch of blankets, and make it a cozy outdoor event. Add snacks, drinks, and maybe even a fun theme to match the movie. No backyard? A drive-in theater works too and gives off major nostalgic vibes.
Forget stage fright—karaoke is all about fun
Nobody needs to be a good singer to enjoy karaoke. In fact, the worse, the better. Whether you’re going to a karaoke bar or just using YouTube tracks at home, the goal is to have fun. Pick dramatic ballads, cheesy duets, or full-on rock anthems. Bonus points for over-the-top performances.
Take the date outside with a hike and picnic
A little fresh air and a change of scenery never hurt anyone. Pick an easy trail, pack some food, and make a day of it. No need to turn it into a hardcore workout—just enjoy the walk, find a nice spot, and relax. Plus, food always tastes better outside.
Try new drinks at a wine tasting or brewery tour
If you like trying new drinks but don’t want to be stuck in a noisy bar, this one’s for you. A winery or brewery tour lets you sip on different options while actually being able to have a conversation. If you want to keep it budget-friendly, grab a few different bottles and set up your own tasting at home.
Have some laughs with a round of mini golf
Mini golf is one of those things no one is actually great at, which makes it way more fun. The weirder the course, the better. Add a small bet to keep things interesting—maybe the losing couple has to buy dessert or pick up the next round of drinks.
Why double dates make things more fun
Bringing another couple along makes even simple activities feel fresh. The conversation flows easier, there’s always something to laugh about, and sometimes you get a little perspective on your own relationship. Plus, let’s be real—friendships take effort, and this is a good way to catch up without having to carve out extra time.
It also takes some of the pressure off date night. If you’re still getting to know someone, having another couple around keeps things more relaxed. And even if you’ve been together forever, it’s just a fun way to break the routine.
Pick a plan and make it happen
Double dates don’t have to be fancy or complicated. The best ones are just about hanging out, having a good time, and doing something different. Whether it’s cooking, playing games, or making a fool of yourself at karaoke, the goal is to enjoy the night. So call up another couple and make it happen—you won’t regret it.