Looks good on you
I’d be sitting there—maybe picking at a loose thread—and he goes, “Looks good on you,” about your jacket or whatever. Dudes don’t throw that around much, not unless they’re trying to get in your head a little. It’s their way of saying they noticed without sounding like a sap. I’ve caught myself saying it—means I’m paying attention, trying to make her grin. He’s probably hoping it lands, perks you up a bit.
Tell me about your hobbies
He might lean in, mutter, “Tell me about your hobbies,” like it’s casual. It’s not—he’s past the surface, digging into what you’re about. I’ve done that, fishing for something we might both like, maybe a way to hang out more. Starts with your looks or your vibe, then he’s hooked on what keeps you ticking. Could be he’s just nosy, but nah—sounds like he’s in deeper than that.
How’s family life
If he grumbles, “How’s family life?”—that’s a shift. He’s not just killing time; he’s picturing where you fit, how your people might mesh with his. Been there myself—start wondering if her folks are nuts or cool, ‘cause that’s the deal if it goes anywhere. He’s sizing it up early, seeing if he’s got a shot long-term.
You stand out from the crowd
He might say, “You stand out from the crowd,” all gruff like it’s nothing. Takes a guy who’s paying attention to notice that—means he’s caught up in what makes you different. I’ve felt that, couldn’t pin it down, just knew she wasn’t like the rest. He’s probably fumbling inside, trying to figure why you’ve got him stuck.
We should do this again
I’d hear him grunt, “We should do this again,” after some hangout. That’s him saying your company doesn’t suck—hell, it’s good, and he’s already itching for round two. I’ve tossed that out when I didn’t wanna let it drop. It’s quiet, but it’s him admitting he’s not done with you yet.
You always make me laugh
He might smirk, “You always make me laugh,” like it’s a throwaway. It’s not—he’s into how you lighten shit up, don’t take it all too serious. I’ve said that when a girl’s got that spark, pulls me outta my own head. Means he’s soaking it up, probably grinning like a dope when you’re around.
I’ve never told anyone this
If we’re alone—maybe it’s late, dark out—and he mumbles, “I’ve never told anyone this,” then spills some buried story, that’s big. I’ve cracked open like that, let stuff slip I’d usually choke down. Shows he’s letting you in, past the front he keeps up. He’s hooked if he’s handing you that—means he’s not faking it.
I’m here for you
He might say, “I’m here for you,” all low and steady. That’s him planting a flag—saying he’s not just talk, he’ll stick around when it’s rough. I’ve thrown that out when I meant it, trying to prove I’ve got her back. He’s setting up for whatever’s coming, showing he’s not scared off easy.
You really get on my nerves
If he grins, “You really get on my nerves,” don’t flinch—it’s just him messing with you. Dudes don’t grow outta that kid stuff; it’s how we poke at people we like. I’ve ribbed girls like that, means I’m comfortable, not mad. Take it as him being a goof, not a prick.
I love your smile
He might growl, “I love your smile,” and it’s more than your teeth—he’s eyeballing your lips, thinking kissing thoughts. I’ve caught myself staring, saying that when I’m halfway gone. It’s him admitting you’ve got him, even if he’s playing it cool.
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Are you seeing someone
If he straight-up says, “Are you seeing someone?”—that’s him cutting through the haze. He’s sniffing around ‘cause he’s into you, wants to know if he’s got a lane. I’ve asked that, heart thumping, hoping it’s a no. Means he’s past just looking—he’s weighing his move.
I want to know more about you
He might mutter, “I want to know more about you,” all casual-like. It’s not a quiz—he’s just letting you roll with it, spill what you want. I’ve done that, sitting back, hoping she’d open up without me prodding too hard. Shows he’s curious, stuck on you already.
You’re truly stunning
He’d say, “You’re truly stunning,” and yeah, it’s corny, but guys see shit with their eyes first. I’ve looked at plenty, but that one’s only for the girl who’s got me rattled. Means he’s not just gawking—he’s caught, and you’re the one doing it.
If you were my girlfriend
If he teases, “If you were my girlfriend,” after you nail something—like fixing a tire— he’s half-joking, half-dreaming. I’ve tossed that out, testing the water, seeing if she bites. Means he’s rolling it around in his head, picturing you two together.
I don’t want anything bad to happen to you
If he grumbles, “I don’t want anything bad to happen to you,” he’s gone soft. I’ve felt that—starts small, then you’re damn near ready to jump in front of a truck for her. He’s not just flapping his gums; he’s saying he’d take a hit to keep you straight. Don’t sleep on that one—it’s real.
I really like your hair
He might say, “I really like your hair,” all gruff and quick. It’s old-school—dudes been saying that forever—means he’s eyeballing you but dodging the big compliments. I’ve thrown that out when I’m too chicken to say her face is killing me. Could smooth over a fight too, if he’s smart.
The most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen
If he goes, “The most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen,” it’s a classic—sounds like a line, sure, but eyes get guys sometimes. I’ve said it and meant it, caught staring like a dope. Don’t brush it off—he might not just be blowing smoke. Means he’s snagged, probably.