And no, this doesn’t mean sending long texts or posting sad quotes. We’re going to handle this like pros—by living our best lives.
Step 1: Let Yourself Be Mad (For a Bit)
Look, it’s okay to be annoyed. Getting ghosted sucks, and it’s normal to feel hurt or even a little confused. So take a second. Rant to your best friend, eat some chocolate, listen to a few sad songs if you need to. Just don’t stay in that phase too long.
Because trust me, the best way to get over this? It’s not in his DMs—it’s in moving on like he never existed.
Step 2: Focus on You
If you want him to regret ghosting, the secret is simple—don’t let it mess with your vibe. Instead, level up.
- Look good, feel good – A fresh haircut, a cute outfit, or even just walking around with confidence changes everything.
- Do something new – Take a trip, try a new hobby, do something that makes you excited again. Bonus points if it’s something he never knew you were into.
- Stay busy – Hang out with friends, have fun, and if you feel like it, post about it. Not in a “look at me, I’m thriving” way—just genuinely living your life.
Step 3: Don’t Reach Out
Seriously. The biggest mistake people make? Texting to ask what happened. Don’t do it. Let silence do the work.
He’s expecting you to check in, maybe even ask why he disappeared. When you don’t? That’s when he starts wondering. “Wait, why isn’t she texting me? Did she not care? Is she over me already?” Let him sit with that thought.
Step 4: The Unexpected Text (Because It’s Coming)
Ghosters have a funny habit of reappearing. Sometimes weeks later, sometimes months. And when that “Hey, how have you been?” text pops up, you have options:
- Ignore it – Honestly, the most powerful move. If he ghosted, he doesn’t deserve a response.
- Keep it short – “Oh hey! I’ve been great, super busy. Hope you’re doing well!” Short, polite, and no extra effort.
- Call him out (in a fun way) – “Wow, look who’s alive! Didn’t think I’d hear from you again.” Keeps it light but makes it clear you noticed his disappearing act.
Step 5: Actually Move On
Here’s the truth—most ghosters do it because they’re bad at communicating or just not ready for anything real. Even if he comes back, do you really want to deal with someone who disappears without a word? Probably not.
The best way to make him regret ghosting isn’t some big revenge plan. It’s simply living your life in a way that makes his absence completely irrelevant. If he realizes what he lost? That’s his problem, not yours. And if he doesn’t? You’re already too busy enjoying life to care.That’s the real win.